5月尾の10感想

感想1：

永遠都不要把朋友對你的信任

當成是你與別人交際時所使用的手段

或者是毫不起眼又無所謂的透明物體

這對你一點好處都沒有。

要知道，信任只有越破越大     且沒有辦法越補越小。

不管對方有沒有說：“這件事你不要說出去”

你還是必須先仔細想清楚事情的嚴重性與私密性才做決定。

你有腦袋，請自己用智慧思考。

感想2：

做人坦誠會害死自己。

但，你還是必須坦誠到底，前提是用溫柔謙虛的方式。

光有一條“直腸子”只會惹人厭。

感想3：

不要為不讓了解和誤解你的人難過，

因爲他們不在乎和你之間的關係所以不會想要了解你。

感想4：

女生，就是要好好的愛自己。

每天都打扮的整整齊齊、漂漂亮亮，要為自己而美麗！

也要為自己的言行舉止負責。

做個有責任感的人。

孝順父母更是必然。

感想5：

珍惜家人和愛你的朋友

感想6：

在另一個國家，吃著同一家餐廳的食物，

是什麽讓食物的味道不一樣了？

是廚師還是那個一起享用食物的人...? 

遇到不對的人，再美味的食物也會平淡無味；

遇到對的人，即使只是粗茶淡飯也會變得味勝易牙。

感想7：

以上6感想皆自我提醒

也是想要和你們分享的感受... 

感想8：

我旁邊的鄰居，

已經晚上11點了，

説話小聲一點好嗎？

我不想知道你們在聊什麽。謝謝。

感想9：

我昨晚失眠。 

翻來覆去，迷迷糊糊，不知是醒著還是睡着？

早上7點多就起身去教會。

午餐和馬小姐在KSL的eLmigo吃得超飽

我們還看到2個帥哥（<-----色胚）

我好想看功夫熊貓2，可是沒人陪我看 :(

然後

現在是晚上11.13分，突然超睏... zzzZZZ

感想10：

明天要過對岸外拍別人，

開心有叩叩進口袋，

希望拍攝順利。

最後，

我真的要去睡了，晚安各位

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舊包變新包 Renew ur bag with some little accessories.

哇，拖了很久 XD

其實  有好多東西要和你們分享 

哈哈哈哈

那今天先來教大家怎麽把舊包包小小改變一下

“重新出發”咯！

Lol,i think i postpone this post for a long time XD

Actually,i have a lot of things wanna share with u guys,hahaha

Okay,teach u how to renew ur bag with some little change.

包包1號

長得很像某品牌包包  

但....其實是新加坡某家婦產科醫院在孕婦出院後送的

我媽幫別人做完月子後    那戶人家有好幾個這樣的包包   

所以  我媽就帶回來用

右上角有一個淺淺的小熊印   被我媽的無敵鐵手洗掉了 XD  

Bag no.1

This bag look like a brandy one but it actually is... ...

a gift for pregnant womens after they born their baby and leave frm hospital.

My mom take this bag frm the pregnant woman house when she work at there,

coz the lady have some in her house.

You can see the right corner above the bag hav a teddy bear sticker which washed out by my mom XD

在大創買的 音符茸毛貼（摸起來毛毛的，顆顆）

先把音符放在你想要的位置

像我就把它們放在被洗掉的小熊周圍

The fluffy notes are bought frm Daiso (so fluffy,kekeke)

then put it on where you want.

拿一片布  蓋在音符上

熨斗備熱後

就輕輕的按壓音符

因爲 音符的後面有一層膠

所以經熨斗加熱後    膠會溶解  音符就粘在包包上啦~

Take a fabric cover the notes,then put the iron press on it.

Behind the notes have a gel layer,so when the iron heat it,

the gel will dissolve and the notes will stick on the bag. 

鏘鏘！

漂亮吧？

簡簡單單的幾分鐘    包包就重生了！

Tadang!

Is it nice?

Just use a few minutes then ur bag are RENEW!

包包2號

我記得有段時間很流行透明包包說

現在應該很少人在用吧？

我媽又是在同一戶人家的家帶回來的

因爲她覺得包型很漂亮

我也是這樣覺得   而且底部夠寬  可以丟一堆東西進去 XD

Bag no2.

I remember this kinda tranparent bag are popular for long time ago

but i think dun hav ppl use this alreaday,issit?

And,my mom took it frm the same family too.

She thinks the bag shape are quite pretty.

I agree with my mom and the bag bottom very spacious then i can throw many stuff inside the bag XD

不喜歡透明？沒有隱私？

我來教你另一招~

Don't like transparent?Don't have privacy?

I teach you another way~

包中包~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Bag in the bag~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

對！就是它！

看似平凡無奇    其實内有乾坤

是我媽幫我做的喲~  :)

Yes! Here it is!

My mom made it for me and maybe look so normal but it is not!

就跟外面買的這種差不多 ↓

like this↓

沒記錯的話，一個大概也要將近馬幣15~20

如果像我媽一樣，拿不要的舊衣服來D.I.Y就省了這筆錢，嘿嘿

I think this cost RM15~20 at shop

But if you're like my mom,use your old clothes D.I.Y the bag,sure can save this money,ehehe.

放進包包後   就不怕路人把你包内的東西看光光啦！

話說，我拍這張的時候  

是去Etude House大戰的那一天（我後來又再去了一次  :p ）

我統統都把它們塞進包包裏

真是讓我驚訝不已的心  頻頻OS：哇唔！竟然可以塞那麽多！好厲害！（而且還有空位）

Then put it in your transparent bag and no worry people will look wat stuffs in ur bag anymore!

Btw,this bag are very spacious enough to let me put the hauls inside when i go to Etude House last time

I'm so surprised about this!Really cool! 

當天的内容物：

沒車之人必備的  雨傘

黑松茶花綠茶罐子的  白開水

韓國品牌Coco的  皮夾

黑壓壓又小閃亮的   化妝包

粉紅包裝有羊咩咩的   面紙

Fisherman

Etude House 戰利品

iFeel雜誌

生日小卡

讓我受瘦不了的   零食

Okay,here are the stuffs i put in my bag on that day:

Umbrella

Drinking water bottle

wallet

cosmetice bag

tissue papers

Fisherman candy

Etude House hauls

iFeel magazine

little birthday card

snack

是不是裝了很多？哈哈哈哈

小小巧思也能化腐朽為神奇(?)

小小改變也能拯救地球！

我可能有客家人節儉的美德：東西不壞，不會換；不適合的，就給人。

丟的話，很浪費耶... ...＝︿＝

Can put many stuff inside,rite?hahahha

Your little change can save the earth

So,don't throw your bag if it still can use.

Just like me renew it or give it to others people are always better than you throw it into the dustbin.

希望大家也能把舊包包

用你自己的魔法變變變！

Magic!

Anyway,wish you can use your own magic to renew your lovely bag!

Magic!

下囘見 

see you next time 

はるこ

深交

你知道嗎...
深交 = 深入交談
並不是只有 --〉  我跟你說我的秘密、我喜歡誰 又或是那個誰誰誰怎麽樣
它包括的 還有很内心層面的事情

有些人  看似好朋友
可以嘻嘻哈哈、打打鬧鬧
但是   你卻沒有辦法和他深入交談
例如：談未來、談家人、談感受 還有那些傷心難過 等

可以深交的人
不限年齡、性別&國籍

相互信賴與扶持  還有  共鳴點    才是主要元素
什麽都能聊   卻又不會擔心對方會出賣你

有人說“同年齡層的人在一起才比較有話題聊”
真的是這樣嗎？
確定？

 NO!

每個人的處境、際遇、心態、思想和個性等   都不一樣
又怎麽可能同年齡層的人在一起才比較有話聊呢？

我在舊的網志裏  有寫過這麽一句話：
沒有共鳴       說什麽都是白說

爲什麽白說？
你抱著分享的心情   人家說你是炫耀
你好心提醒               人家說你自以爲，光會批評
你真心稱讚               人家說你狗腿

那    還需要多說什麽呢？

到最後   自己還會“不小心”變透明，還要尷尬又累的存在著
我有問題？那你就沒有問題嗎？
是雙方都有問題！
什麽問題？  
問題就是：每個人的處境、際遇、心態、思想和個性等   都不一樣。

深交  也是要物以類聚的  好嗎？


跟長輩們就不好聊嗎？錯！
長輩們都有許多的人生歷練   懂的東西一定比我們還多
所以   跟他們多相處就會有更多知識上的衝擊
或許   他們的想法不一定對 （因爲有些大人們有些許傳統思想）
但  仍值得我們把他們的觀點納入參考中
不過阿... ...有些大人也不見得思想成熟... ...
呵

最後   分享威爺在我的舊網志留言 這麽寫著：
這世界很奇怪

快樂不能講，人家會覺得你得意忘形；
悲傷不能講，除了節哀不會有其他更新的形容詞。 

心裡有話不能講，因為沒人有地方裝。 

事實不能講，太多人承受不起；
謊言不能講，誠實是一種美德。 

那...還剩下什麼能講？
就乾脆什麼都不要講就好了。

所謂的「知心」朋友就是你不開口
他也能體諒你、明白你的感受。



某個大人阿，
我並沒有說   我自己是有多麽成熟
那是你自己說的

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Murmur

Hello guys,

i might told u i gonna go to KL for a job interview on last post,right?

But,i decided not to go at last.

I got my own reasons and prefer working in Singapore.

Last time,when i get the call frm the only one Singapore TV station,i'm super duper excited!!!

but,this time...when i pick up the call...i'm very calm... ...

my depression are out of my imagine too... ...

Specially thks miss yong qian qian & Alicia mar.

They analysis to me and always by my side supporting me.

oh ya,Miss eva(my taiwan bestie)oso...

Feel warm when u know ur bestie always 

believe and respect 

what decision you make and back up u behind. 

example,when sbd accuse you have do sth u didnt,

ur bestie will believe u deeply when u said NO,I DIDNT DO IT.

after i bk frm taiwan,

 gathered with my frens but found some of them are change...

ya,me change too... ...

I dunno why some ppl always thinking straigtly and pretend like"aww,i know how you feel"

but actually they dun.

One of my gal fren who i treat her as my best fren before,

she try to probe did i hav good feeling with sbd or not when everytime we talked abt love matter.

And of course i will ask her back like: how abt u?he's not bad what,consider?

She always answer: no lar,we just BEST FREN.

ya...best fren ~

THEN they happily ever after in the end.

I'M SO FEELING BAD!

Last time,she said:"i'm ur best frens(maybe not the best),i think ...blablabla"

sounds like soooooo understand me but she doesnt know shes not!

Coz i didnt tell her so much things.

And i didnt get any call or msg frm her till last last last last last week.

She:"hello,how are you recently?fine?"

me:"not bad as usual"

She:"so,hows ur work?find the job already?"

me:"err...nope yet..."

She:"aww,my bf's fren who working at blablabla,he may help u ask his fren"

(okay,seriously i really appreciated abt this!)

then she continue...

she:"so...are you available for helping us do sth?" 

=     =+...

yay,this is purpose of this call!!!fml.

THIS IS WHAT BEST FRENS CALL!!!

when i ask her any of yours can't do?Is easy things what?

she:"yes,easy thing but WE HAVE NO TIME"

fml again...

Jobless doesnt mean i'm free everytime,k!

PLEASE!If u reduce ur facebook time,yumcha time,tv time after u knock off frm office,

u can do what!

what mean WE HAVE NO TIME!?

What a bunch of irresponsible guys...

but,

i still answer YES to help them to do the things. =   =+

And very last saturday,

i ask a question to a guy:

"if u said these problem cause they dont come to join us,

then did u guys thinking maybe the problem is us not them before? "

then he answer:

"Actually we have do many things~

u think we dun have do meh?blablabla~

We do so many u didnt know,like the video clip,need time to do ler(<---yayaya,i knew need time to do,i'm graduated frm mass com.But many ppl can't get the point of the video clip ler,mr!) 

bla bla bla"

OBVIOUSLY, his answer NOT WHAT I MEANT TO ASK!

frm the question i ask,whr i doubt u guys didnt do sth??????????????

*headache*

*sign*

Whatever lar...jz keep misundertood my words if this make u happy~~~

i'm speechless ord...

okay,a super long murmur before i going out to meet my wenxin darling

see you guys soon :)

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